Judgement is an Earthly ego thing.
You do not know the depth of the situation to give a full description of what is truly happening.
So therefore, the judgement of it is only a surface conclusion by those not fully informed.
Be careful, it is a humanly habit to pass these surface conclusions on many things happening in your life.
And believe that you are right in your conclusions.
Leave open your opinions and defer judgement because there is so much more to be known and understood.
The energies will bring it into the light.
We will help you to see what is needed to know in these situations.
All is well.
We are with you.