3/7/20 Grief

When you lose the physical existence of someone you love the emotion called grief sets in.

You are so used to having a physical relationship with that person you will miss it.

You will say that they left this world too soon.

You were not ready for them to leave.

It doesn’t really matter how many physical years they were there it’s always too soon and you will miss them.

Each person’s grief is unique to themselves.

Each one is different, just like their life.

Each one will move through their grief and learn how to live, without the physical presence of their loved one in their life, in a different way.

The time frame and depth of that grief are unique to each person.

It’s theirs and they are dealing with this change as best as they can.

Your patience, compassion and love can help them!

But what doesn’t help is judgment, ridicule or expectations.

When you are dealing with your own grief it is important for you to understand there is separation but not death, true death.

That loved one lives on in-spirit, another dimension, you are only learning a little about now.

But they exist, in-spirit, closer than you think.

They are with you - watching you and still loving you very much.

You can have a non-physical relationship with them when you are ready.

It’s not too difficult when you are open to it and give it a try.

The relationship is as unique now as it was in physical form.

You can decide what best suits you and how they can help you in your grief.

Most are happy to comply.

It may be more difficult for some to get this but for others, it will be a natural response.

Given the chance to believe your loved one still exists and is with you, still active in your life, can be a great relief.

The more you are open to this and share your experience the more it will help others to understand life.

We are always with you.

Namaste